Written by Sharvan Kumar
Although there are many ways a single man could develop into a relationship man, a professional dating coach says one ability is absolutely essential.
Graduate of University of Arizona who had worked in the travel sector, Blaine Anderson has started her own dating coach company. Two years ago, the native of Austin, Texas started Dating By Blaine.
Anderson has more than 700,000 followers on social media, where she provides a lot of her useful insights and guidance even while she provides personal coaching and dating classes.
Of course, you should approach them in the appropriate context and manner (for instance, a woman reading a book at a coffee shop could be more suited than one hard at work at the gym wearing headphones).
Anderson acknowledges that initially it will be uncomfortable and embarrassing to get better at approaching women in public, but finally it will be muscle memory.
"Cold calling is the fundamental ability EVERYONE picks up in sales. Though it's not fun, the guys who persevere until it's no longer terrible start to show results and end up becoming the rainmakers," she said.
"Dating is essentially the same. At first, learning to approach women is embarrassing and uncomfortable; but, the more you do, the better you grow, the more women you meet, and the more chances you provide yourself above every other man out there to land an amazing companion."
Though many people will still say that meeting someone in public is preferred, dating apps keep growing in popularity. Thus, despite awkwardness, get out there and approach in public.
From East West Hunt